
or can jump into relationships or sexual encounters that aren’t right.you aren’t good with money and can splurge, buy things you don’t need.possible sensory overwhelm if places are noisy, too bright.can’t stand queues, concerts, long bus journeys, feel trapped and bored.

and feel left behind, beneath your potential.

that means you endlessly compare yourself unfavourably to others.a constant sense you should be more, do more.you feel low, perhaps suffer from anxiety and depression.a nagging feeling that you are flawed, useless.but you get distracted, you miss the time window, and compensate in ways that mean you feel disappointed by yourself.The presents you’ll by, something you’ll do for them, the cake you’ll bake… you have so many good intentions to be a good friend/parent/partner.so yes, relationships can be hard, and draining.particularly as friends can take it personally if you forget things or seem to not be paying attention.which means you sometimes feel like a fake, who is the real you?.you hide your struggles from others, doing your best to seem normal.then feel terrible that you snapped or were unkind.feel impatient with partners and children.important things get neglected, and you are in stress all over again.finding far more time has passed than you realised.a feeling of ‘coming to’ when you exit hyper focus.but you choose the wrong things to focus on.going into ‘hyper focus’ and getting tons done.finding yourself doing some ‘research’ online and going on a huge, deep tangent.feeling exhausted all the time from trying.blaming yourself for not being able to stay on top of life.a constant and frantic sense of overwhelm.paperwork is a nightmare, you can’t keep up.


